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Is it weird if a 23 year old is dating a 33 year old?
Try therapy, now online. If it doesn't work, hey, at least you tried, right? Tell her what you told us. He's gross and immature and wants to have sex with you and will say whatever it takes.
He can be a basically nice guy who you like a lot and are very attracted to and still not be a person you should be with You two don't seem to want the same thing.
Whether the guy is playing with his own emotions, or playing with the OP's, this is not the trusting and honest relationship which leads to lifetime commitment the OP is looking for. This doesn't make sense as he's only had 2 long term relationships before.
Populo evertitur ut his, summo errem postea te his. No lady would love to stick to a twenty-some guy who is still trying to find his feet and still 33 dating a 22 year old with his roommates. But not when you're a virgin. This doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you dating people, but dating people who have developed established ways to interact with and recognize other people's boundaries as well as the context for understanding them puts you and your interests at a colossal disadvantage.
Thank you for your feedback! I wonder if this is in part what's behind the meeting in public places requirement?
It's gotten to the point where this kind of behavior automatically makes me lose a huge amount of respect for the person who is doing it because I've had such shitty experiences with guys like this in the past. I also feel like this guy has a girlfriend and doesn't want to "take your virginity" because he doesn't want to be the kind if immoral asshole who cheats on his girlfriend with a 20 year old virgin. Now if you're just interested in a fling thing, go for it. Your sister is wrong - 22 is nothing like molestation, so ignore her. He's keeping you from being intimate with anyone else, any one who is not him.
Learn More at talkspace. My sister says that I am step away from molestation. I genuinely don't think he has a girlfriend, albeit a serious one. But that's not how you grow up, and to me it meant so much less than finding someone who I could meet life's challenges with at the same time.
Sign up to get updated on our latest coverage of race and hate. Never bothered with Halloween. Find all posts by NurseCarmen. Just be careful though because sometimes older men tend to be more manipulative and controlling depending on what type of 32 year is he.
Don't date a Peter Pan-type with commitment issues. I think he maybe has a girlfriend, and either way he's playing games because you are still a virgin.
Why would you want that? For that reason, I don't think it's worth your time.
Do you really want to date someone who hasn't actually had a real job yet and is still going out and drinking like a college student? I'm 23 she's Or he doesn't care about morality and doesn't want the drama that is inevitably going to accompany you having sex for the first time.
You haven't really said anything other than you really admire him, as far as what you like and see in him. Straight Dope Message Board Join us now! As someone said, it's not a contract.