Dating someone with herpes, post navigation
What About Sex?
A search on the Internet for "herpes dating" will turn up several. Click OKthen refresh this Yelp page and try your search again. Mucosal contact is where the risk of infection comes in. But, there's still that chance of getting the virus if you are dating someone with herpes. Borrowing a trick from our teenage selves, we grabbed a blanket and hunted down a secluded enough corner of the campus softball field.
That said, I've got a few thoughts: That's just my personal choice though. Yes, herpes is incredibly annoying and painful at times, but that's all.
See, you think you're disagreeing with me but you are in fact saying exactly the same thing. It seems like she should get to share her own research and ideas for making a relationship work with herpes before you dismiss her.
Dealing With Rejection
That's why you might want to eventually not use them, once you have both been tested for HIV, and you are using other birth control methods. You talk a lot of talk, and are shaming this dating someone with herpes.
Freaking out you might have Herpes?
While it's not something that MOST people have an issue with as in outbreaks and symptoms there are some that are constantly in pain from the sores on their genitalia. You saying such a thing is a complete and unjustified over generalization.
Broaching the Topic of Genital Herpes
There's no girl on this earth worth getting herpes for That's just sad. But we get looked at like we have a life threatening disease.
Maybe if she's open to it talk to both of them at the same time. Personally, I think this is the question that you really need to answer. Then there is the fact that if you catch it, you can pass it on to a different woman who will then probably need a Caesarian if she ever has children to avoid infecting the baby, and that's not minor surgery. Which means kissing, oral sex, genital to genital sex, sucking on a finger that's been somewhere naughty and nice!